I should really just call my blog “Dani’s Rant Blog’s” because this is another rant/question.
I have this one friend, Madison. Now.. I don’t get her. I really don’t. We’ve been friends since we were, what.. eight years old? So, we’ve been friends for four years now. Little Dani thought we would be friends forever- but little Dani was wrong. Let me just tell you about my friend (Madison). Madison is a confusing, rude, self-centered friend.. and she has become this over the past year or two now. I understand she had a rough childhood- her mother abused her when she was a little child by not feeding her and her father would have to come pick her up to feed her (her father has custody over her now). So- I really don’t want to be rude to her because I feel really bad for her. But her behavior is just getting outrageously uncontrollably rude lately. My “Blog #4” is about her, too. We’re both twelve, and now I’m just starting to notice how RUDE her behavior is.
Incident #1: The first time I noticed her rude behavior was last year in the summer time. She ignored me for a month- I thought I did something wrong, because this happened right after we had a playdate/sleepover. So, I asked her.. because I wanted to know if I was being rude. According to her I did nothing.. so why did she ignore me then? I still don’t know to this day. But that’s when it hit me that she was a rude friend.
Incident #2: We had a playdate a few months after ‘Incident #1’ happened. As a normal 11 year old does, when you have playdates with your friends you play games on your iPads and such. So.. we were playing Minecraft on the iPad and.. my little sister was playing with me and Madison.. Madison goes over to my seven year old sisters house and takes all her stuff, blames it on me, hides the stuff underground, and then finally says it was her. So- obviously I’m a little pissed off at her (so is my sister) and we try to find the stuff and she’s over there laughing her ass off at us as I’m helping my sister. She never told us where it was- ever. So.. I go over to her house and ask for the stuff back nicely and she says “No!” and runs off- in real life. My mom finally steps into the situation and asks Madison to give the stuff back because my little seven year old is crying. (Yes, I understand this is a game and we shouldn’t have made it such a big deal but we where 11 year olds at the time). Finally, I find the stuff and Madison calls my mom a jerk and runs and grabs my iPad and hides it somewhere in my house. What does my mom do? Call her Dad. And the day later she calls me and acts like nothing happened the day before that.
Incident #3: I’m surprised I can’t remember any of the other incidents from that year, but this is what happened this year (We’re twelve now). It’s January and it’s her birthday and stuff, and I now live two hours away from her (thank god). So, for her birthday our parents decide to do a trip to Six Flag’s Magic Mountain, since I live three/four minutes away from there. So, I’ve never been to a huge roller coaster park before. So, if you can imagine I’m very excited about this trip, so is Madison. So, we’re about to leave and little twelve year old Madison over here says “Jesus, can your mom like hurry up she’s taking forever.” I respond back saying “Give her a minute, you can wait.” And she gives me a dirty look- I said that sentence in a very nice way.. but I don’t like people saying shit about my mom. So, when we get there we go to the first ride- it’s all fine y’know.. but the second ride is a longer line- like 30 minutes (not that much from the other rides). And she says “Dani, this is stupid I’m not waiting that long for a stupid ride.” So, I say fine then you guys can go eat and I’ll go on the ride with my mom. She leaves to get food with her dad and my sister (Because my eight year old sister isn’t tall enough). The ride was amazing, btw. When we get off the ride and go to where they were eating, she just says “I’m sick and tired” in this bratty ass voice, then she says it again. A few minutes after we eat “Dani, how was the stupid ride?” and I was just done with her at tho point- like bitch no. Anyways, I respond back saying “The stupid ride was amazing and not stupid.” so she shakes her head and rolls her eyes and then says “Can we like, go now?” We don’t go on your demand, sweetie.. but we went anyways.
Incident #4: I’m Facetiming her, and stuff and I was saying “I love myself for not being like most girls these days (Not that they’re bad or anything), because I haven’t had my first boyfriend or kiss yet. So I was there all proud of myself and she says “Dani.. most girls don’t have they’re first kiss until 15 or their own boyfriend until 16.” I’m sorry, what? Are you telling me I’m stupid, Madison? Little did I know, she was.. because I said “Well, a lot of girls have been telling me that they have a boyfriend and/or have had their first kiss.. and they’re all 11-13.” I know my shit, I knew I was right in this situation but to her I was just a stupid blonde. So she responds back saying “Well, Dani, they’re stupid and so are you for saying that.. lol” I really wanted to respond back saying “You can’t just say that because you haven’t had your first kiss or boyfriend.” But I was to scared to say that.
Incident #5: I was talking about how my parents are either going to buy land and build a house or buy a house in the valley area. So I was all happy and stuff- and before I tell you what she said, her dad wants to buy land and build a house too, so she was judging her own father. So, Madison said this: “Dani? Why are your parents going to buy land? It’s such a stupid option- it takes forever and what even type of house would you build? Could you even afford it?” so I ended that call with her.
I’m sorry if this is to long and such, I just had to rant on about my friend- I also hope that I don’t sound like a bad friend.. but do you guys have a friend like this?